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According to social psychologist, aggression is a behaviour which is intended to harm other individual physically or psychologically. Aggression reflects through acts of physical violence, shouting, harsh language etc. Aggression is the word that we use frequently to define behaviour of others.                Generally aggression is divided into 2 categories:- 1)    Impulsive Aggression:- It is also known as reactive aggressive behaviour. Impulsive aggression is characterized by strong emotions. It is caused by anger, triggers in the situation. This form of aggression is not planned& it takes place when irritating situation occurs. For example :- In traffic when some vehicle hits your car & you starts shouting , berating the other driver, that time you are experiencing impulsive aggression.       2)  INSTRUMENTAL AGGRESSION:-  It is also known as proactive aggressive behaviour. This type of aggression involves a planned & goal - oriented act of harmful behaviour. Instrument

It means parents are over protecting their children. Such parents tries to control whole world of the children. They are always afraid to send their children anywhere alone. They all the time worried about their child's safety, protection & potential danger. Over protective parenting would likely to impact badly on child's mental health. It may devop low self- esteem , low decision making capacity, low confidence in the children. When teenagers parents are over protective then there will be 100% chances of disputes.              There was a counselling case of overprotective child. She was in 12th standard. Her parents were so much over protecting her that it resulted in high level of anxiety, lack of decision making, dependence, lack of confidence. She was not at all able to talk properly. In such cases parents counselling is highly recommended. WHY PARENTS ARE SO OVERPROTECTIVE :-  Sometimes parent's abundant love for the children force them to become overprotective.

             Hello. I am Manisha Karkhanis. I have pursued BA Psychology, PG Diploma in Personnel Management, PG Diploma in School Psychology, ECCED. I am working from last 7 years in counselling field. My aim is to guide people to overcome confusing situations & help to focus them to choose the right direction in their life.          MY EXPERTISE AREAS :- 1) Guidance about parenting skills. 2) Improving communication between parents & children.  3) Handling sibling issues. 4) Adolescence issues like , relationship problems, anxiety, suicidal thoughts, aggressiveness etc. 5) Help to find out potentials in the person & guide accordingly. 6) Personality development. Find out personality traits.  7) Management of emotional issues. 8) Groupism issues, peers issues, self esteem, ego, adjustment issues.  9) Women counselling.          WHY DO WE NEED A COUNSELLOR :-               Everyone deserves peaceful mind & smooth realtionships in the life. As we all know nowadays our li